Our earthly experience and what our parents did not teach us

Our earthly experience and what our parents did not teach us.

By John Ruland III

Things we need to know that our parents did not teach us.

Chapter 1: History of our planet Page 3

Chapter 2: Tribal Attributes 5

Chapter 3: Free will and Choice 6

Chapter 4: As a single male 7

Chapter 5: As a single woman 8

Chapter 6: Starting a friendship Step 1 Page 9

Chapter 7: Starting a Relationship step 2 Page 10

Chapter 8: Deciding to get married Step 3 Page 11

Chapter 9: Married life without children 13

Chapter 10: Married life with children 14

Chapter 11: Basic Information and Children 16

Chapter 12: Age 0-2 What we should teach them at this age. 17

Chapter 13: Age 3-5 What we should teach them at this age. 19

Chapter 14: Age 6-7 What we should teach them at this age. 20

Chapter 15: Age 8-10 What we should teach them at this age. 21

Chapter 16: Age 11-13 What we should teach them at this age. 23

Chapter 17: Age 14-16 What we should teach them at this age.23

Chapter 18: Age 17-20 What we should teach them at this age. 24

Chapter 19: Age 21-22 What we should teach them at this age. 26

Chapter 20: Age 23-30 What we should learn within this age. 27

Chapter 21: Age 31-62 What we should learn about within this age. 28

Chapter 22: Age 63- What we should learn about within this age. 30

Chapter 23: Information that would not fit anywhere. 31-56

Our earthly experience and what our parents did not teach us.

Chapter 1: Our history or our earth

The main problem when you talk about history you have to talk about religion for without religion within history you will not have much history. For many wars, fights, fall of kingdoms, killings, are all related to religion in one form or another.

So to tell the story about the many things that went on throughout history we have to include all the many religions that in some cases caused history to be written.

Even some whole cities were wiped out because of their religious beliefs. Even churches were started because of the teachings of JESUS.

I am just saying without some of the great teachers within history there would be no history to tell.

What story would be told if all there was is this story that ever happened.

I got up and went out and feed the livestock, planted crops and harvested them and took them to market and then started all over again next spring.

Whole story, no religion, no wars, no fighting, nothing ever happened because of religion for if there was never a religion then what was there to fight over. OH I know the cow that got lost and someone found it and keep it. Then when you did find the cow they would not give it back because they said they found it wandering on their land so it is there’s now. So what do you do? Start a war?

But this is not the case we have many different religions, beliefs, creeds, and even some people that the whole kingdom worshiped.

So when we talk about history we have to include all the history of all the religions within this world.

For most of you or even just some of you have ethics but no GOD that you worship. But no matter what we all have faith but that faith does not have to pertain to a deity like a creator. For we have to have faith that when we sit down in the chair the chair will hold us. If we thought that the chair would not hold us we would not sit down. So we all have faith about something’s even though sometimes we do not think about it and just do it. When we get in the car we know that the seat will hold us and if we put the key in the car will start and so on and on.

Now one thing that I want to explain is this:

For something to be created within perfection there has to be a creator, or a deity to put together anything with perfection so it will work as designed. If you have a watch you have to have a creator to create the watch. If you have flowers you have to have a creator to create the seed with perfection so the seed will grow into a flower or whatever was created for it to become.

A deity is a being that has a personality and can create with perfection, and has the ability to live someplace where there is no time as we know it. That GOD is Omnipotence means God is all-powerful. This means God has supreme power and has no limitations.

Omnipotence, Omniscience, and Omnipresence

Omnipotence means all-powerful. Monotheistic theologians regard God as having supreme power. This means God can do what he wants. It means he is not subject to physical limitations like man is. Being omnipotent, God has power over wind, water, gravity, physics, etc. God's power is infinite, or limitless.

Omniscience means all-knowing. God is all all-knowing in the sense that he is aware of the past, present, and future. Nothing takes him by surprise. His knowledge is total. He knows all that there is to know and all that can be known.

Omnipresence means all-present. This term means that God is capable of being everywhere at the same time. It means his divine presence encompasses the whole of the universe. There is no location where he does not inhabit. This should not be confused with pantheism, which suggests that God is synonymous with the universe itself; instead, omnipresence indicates that God is distinct from the universe, but inhabits the entirety of it. He is everywhere at once. So this means we live within GOD himself. With this in mind because we live within him he can watch over us and take care of us. Then once saved GOD can live within us.

The planet we live on GOD calls Urantia and means our heavenly place in space.

For we are human and our bodies will die over time and we call it our soul but GOD calls it our personality. For what sets apart from all the other animals here on earth is our personality that includes speech, creativity, consciousness, spiritual awareness, ethics, morels, and other things that makes up our personality.

As we go throughout our lives we learn many things from out parents, school, other people, our job, driving a car, taking care of a home, yard, our children. We learn 80% of everything we know from our parents that is if our parents taught us what we needed to know as we grow up.

But first how we are who we are and why.

Chapter 2: Tribal Attributes

This one thought I want you to think about that is not really thought of much when you talk about the many tribes of people out there.

Everyone has tribal physical attributes, like the color of our skin, our eye shape, our hair color, our eye color and even the way you speak and even the way you think and what you look like are all your tribal attributes.

We are born with a blank slate and what we learn from birth is from our parents. Where we live, what our parents have taught us, what we have learned in school. Even our religion if there is one we have learned from our parents and others around us.

As time goes by we grow up and then we have many choices to make. Like the next thing is do you marry within your own tribe or do you seek a mate outside of your tribe. That is what should be thought of when you decide on who you want to marry and settle down and have children with. What culture will you raise your children in and even what religion will your children be raised in. There are many things that you will have to talk about and think about when you start dating. NO matter what tribe you come from everyone should think of what religion they are to be brought up in. This just one of the many things that is fought over is how to raise their children in what religion, what school and even where to live to raise your children in. all of this should be thought over before you start dating and who you want to be and what your children will be when you do find someone. So when you do get old you can look back and say I would have done everything all over again instead of if I could have done it all over again I would have done things different. Now is the time to change things that you can change. So live your life the way you want to do not let everyone else try to tell you want you want and what is right for you. It is time to make your own choices in life for your life is your life.

The reason there is male and female is:

For the DNA to be mixed there has to be the male and female separate for if they were one and had children after a while the DNA would not be strong enough for the beings to survive for a very long time. The strain would die off. So God in all his wisdom separated them into male and female so there would be more of a broad DNA exchange. For now with male and female there can be many tribes and they can mate and make the DNA stronger with outside DNA from all the different tribes.

Our culture within us

At the end of the 20th century, we now understand that human cultural behavior is learned, conditioned into infants beginning at birth, and always subject to modification. No human is born with a built-in culture or language. Our temperaments, dispositions, and personalities, regardless of genetic propensities, are developed within sets of meanings and values that we call "culture." Studies of infant and early childhood learning and behavior attest to the reality of our cultures in forming who we are.

It is a basic tenet of anthropological knowledge that all normal human beings have the capacity to learn any cultural behavior. The American experience with immigrants from hundreds of different language and cultural backgrounds who have acquired some version of American culture traits and behavior is the clearest evidence of this fact. Moreover, people of all physical variations have learned different cultural behaviors and continue to do so as modern transportation moves millions of immigrants (and or tribal members) around the world.

How people have been accepted and treated within the context of a given society or culture has a direct impact on how they perform in that society. The word "racial" within the worldview was invented to assign some groups to perpetual low status, while others were permitted access to privilege, power, and wealth. The tragedy in the United States has been that the policies and practices stemming from this worldview succeeded all too well in constructing unequal populations among Europeans, Native Americans, and all the other tribal members of all the nations.

Given what we know about the capacity of normal humans to achieve and function within any culture, we conclude that present-day inequalities between so-called "racial" groups are not consequences of their biological inheritance but products of historical and contemporary social, economic, educational, and political circumstances within each culture.

Chapter 3: Within our free will we can choose

Within the confines of our existence we live within the realm of god himself. So because GOD gives us freewill to choose within those confines we can make our own choices within our own lives. So some of the choices we make are made within the confines of our knowledge that we live in the confines of this earth that we live in. God gives us choices within the confines of the earth we live on and because there is confines within our life therefor the daily choices we make determines our future.

We are time will creatures and over time we will age and die and once death comes if we have listened to God our creator and got saved we then will have everlasting life. Some say because we have to make choices within our lives that our free will is taken away from us. That is not the case we have chosen within our free will within the confines of our time line we have changed the way we live and even what we eat and where we live. If we had followed god’s ways then within that time line we would have made the right choices and would have not been confined by the choices we had made. Once we get saved our future, outlook on life, our fortune, even our relationships will change.

God loves us and wants the best for us and once saved we will want to follow his rules. Then within our world we will be rewarded for our faithfulness but if not many things that would have been given to us is not given to us because of our rebellion.

Once we get saved we will want to follow GODs ways and we will sin less and less. Sin means that we rebel against GOD and what he teaches. Once saved over time we will sin less and less. For we will want to do his work for our meaning of life has changed so will our fortune, our job, even our outlook on life. We start to treat others better and just about everything within our life will change.

Chapter 4: Unmarried man

This stage of life is when we make a choice to find someone and become friends and as time goes by get married and even have children. But there is always many choices to make even if you want to have children and or even get married. Things happen over time and we seem to make a choice that later on we say if I had done this then things would have been better for me now. We have to sit and think before we make any choice in life. We have to think of the future of what we do today will a lot of times seem to determine our future choices that we make from day today.

The best thing you could do for your children is to get marred so you will have his last name and the children will have their father’s last name. Then over time the children will have a sense of belonging because they all have their father’s last name. The woman is the most important person within any relationship because she is the one that takes care of the home, the children, and everything that has to do with the home.

The problem now days are that within our families is not well trained from their parents. For our parents did not get trained from their parents and they did not get trained from their parents. So in turn how can our mom and dad teach us about what life is all about and get the training we need to train our children about life. Within every family there is needed one woman and one man so they can teach their children about life and what men do and what woman do from day today. When the children turn 5 the boy gets trained by his dad but until that time it is his mom that trains him all the things he will need to know, like how to wright, spell, speak, count, and all the other things that he will need to know before he starts learning under his dad.

Once a boy turns five the he starts to learn things from his dad and his dad has to take him and show him what he does and even what life is all about and how to treat others. To guide the children and get them to understand that to do what is needed you then will have something in life that you can call your own. Then help your mom and wife when the time comes around the home. Help with the dishes, and other things she will want you to do. The more you do with your mom and help out the more you will stay friends like later on in life if you do a lot of things with your wife you will stay friends with her and you will be together all your lives.

For a boy to become a man he as to come to realize that no matter what you do in life instead of planning things for the family make plans with the family.

Chapter 5: Unmarred woman

Woman have to really decide when the time comes to get married first and then have children or have children out of wedlock. The best thing you could do for your children is to get marred so you will have his last name and the children will have their father’s last name. Then over time the children will have a sense of belonging because they all have their father’s last name. The woman is the most important person within any relationship because she is the one that takes care of the home, the children, and everything that has to do with the home.

The problem now days are that within our families is not well trained from their parents. For our parents did not get trained from their parents and they did not get trained from their parents. So in turn how can our mom and dad teach us about what life is all about and get the training we need to train our children about life. Within every family there is need one woman and one man so they can teach their children about life and what men do and what woman do from day today. When the children turn 5 the boy gets trained by his dad but until that time it is his mom that trainings him all the things he will need to know, like how to wright, spell, speak, count, and all the other things that he will need to know before he starts learning under his dad.

This is when the girl child starts to learn from her mom on how to take care of the home, the other children, and even how to cook. So when she gets old enough she can take over the home and provide all the things that all the children will need and even take care of her husband.

She is the most important person within the home. For she is the one that keeps the home a home and the children feed, the husband feed and all the other things that she needs to do from day today.

Once the woman does not know how to take care of the home or just does not want to do then the home falls apart and then there is divorce because she gave up on the home and even the children. It is very hard for a man to take care of the home, work, and all the other things that needs to be down without her. Then if she is left with the children and he is not there then it comes a time when she is so tired that she just will stop doing the things that needs to be done from day today. Then the family has fallen apart and then once in a while she will lose the children. All this happened because she just gave up on everything and even sometimes left him and the children behind.

The children learn many things in school but do not learn how to take care of a home, take care of children, cook, clean, and take care of her husband. She is the one that can keep her husband in line and get him to do the things that are needed from day today once she learns how to do it from her mom. Her mom is the most important person in the life of a girl there is. For she can learn about family and life itself from her mom. But how can she learn from her mom what she needs to know if her mom does not know what to teach her children.

Chapter 6: A Friendship Starts

Stage one: Meet someone and get antiquated and spend a lot of time with each other and become somewhat friends. Then as time goes by when you spend a lot of time together then you start to become really good friends and spend as much time you can with each other. But you really do not know someone unless you live with them. Once you have got to this stage and before you even decide to get married you will want to go to step two. A lot of times we go from step one to step three and get married and then have children and sometimes not even get married and then have children. Stage two is the most important stage there is for this stage is when you learn about marriage, doing things together, when you have children, what to do within your friendship, then into a relationship and then marriage.

Once you have become friends and been seeing each other a lot. Now is the time to really sit and talk about the future. For do not let your body rule over your mind for later on things could get out of hand and be a divorce or even worse get hurt and end up in the hospital.

So now is the time to do things together and learn more about each other.

Chapter 7 Starting a Relationship (dating)

Stage Two: is when you inter a relationship means that you are now dating.

This is the part that most try to avoid because they think it will make it so bad that they will lose the one they love but in turn if you do not do this over time it might happen anyway. But now you have children and many years later how to start over once you are single again. If you had sit down and talked about everything in the first place this would not have happened because you might not have even got married in the first place. So it is better to talk things over now before you even decide to get married and have children. Then all ways remember one thing do not let your body over rule your mind.

That consists of sitting down and talking about what you want out of life and that means both of you really need and sit down and talk this over. How many children, what you want out of life and even what you want to do when you get old and even where you want to live what job you want, there is a website you can look up the 500 questions or more that should be asked before you even decide on marriage. For if you both do not even get to half of them and cannot agree on even half all you will do later on is fight, fight because you want to be right and have your own way. For if this happens you never talked about it before you got married. Like what religion do you want to raise your children as? Instead of say this is the way it is and then it starts a fight. So if you missed Stage two like just about everyone does because they feel if they talk about what they want the person will leave. But then you realize now that you might have married the wrong one for now you both want something different out of life and now there are children. So you break up and get divorced all because you missed Stage 2. Really talking over everything even which way the TP goes. It goes down the back because if you have children or cats they will unroll it if it goes over the front. Hit it and see what I mean. If it is over it goes all over the floor if not it just goes around and around. So make sure you sit and really get to know someone and the only way is to ask questions. Do not be afraid of talking to them it is better to find out now before you get marred if you can get along and want the same things out of life now. And not fight about all the things you did not talk about and then later on ending up getting a divorce. Now if they do not want to talk to you about everything then nothing will work and they will fight about everything for they will want their own way no matter what you want.

This is the stage you go from being acquaintances to become good friends. You see more of each other and do many things together. Best friends do not lie, cheat, steal, and spend more time with others then the best friend you have at home.

Stage one: find someone and become friends

Stage two: Talk about the future and all the things that pertain to the things you want and the 500 questions that everyone should talk about. Now with this understanding that you have now between you and you each know what has to be done you enter stage two with now a relationship that will last a life time. Even when something’s that come up you know then to sit and talk about them and what needs to be done to solve the problem.

Now I really have to explain something that no many can comprehend is that sisters and brothers might get curious to see if they could have been the one that there brother or sister married. So sometimes they will see out to find out. Then that is what happens when one of you I call jump the fence and spend time with one of the sisters or brothers that each of you have. So from the start if you talk about this and have things talked about this when it will happen in the future or sooner or later each one of you will know how to deal with family and what they seek. For them I think that they really do not know the full story of what their intentions is they are just curious about the sister or brother in-law to see if they could have been the one that married them. Now once you talk about this all you have to do is tell them that I married the right one and we would have never worked out and most of the time it will solve the problem. If not then what is going on within the family has to bring out so everyone knows what is going on and why. This should put a stop to it. This is why sometimes the many times others have asked you out was not because they wanted to date you they wanted to find out what you are like and how good of a spouse you are and if they seem they are really interested in you they are not it is just something they are curious about why your marriage as lasted so long. Most of the time they seek out someone that married to find out what they are like and this way then can find someone like you but you are already taken so that means you are just someone with information they need and that is all. So this is why when you leave your spouse they tell you to leave for it was not you but the though of you and what you represent. Not you personality for they do not seek marriage they seek information only. So it is just better to talk to them at work but never outside of work for they seek things that you will not understand for you already have someone and they do not. Many people do things for different reasons but it always comes down to how much you love your spouse, children, and the way of life that you have found within your life time. Some things cannot be replaced but found.

Chapter 8: Marred life

Stage three: getting married and settling down and raise a family. Then the best thing is when something does come up you have already talked about it so you both know where each one of you stand. If something new comes up then sit and talk it over.

I tell my wife everything that goes on with everyone so when someone tells her something she knows the real truth. Then what ever it is she can take care of it. Just because of one of your sisters or brothers get curious and put a stop to it before anything happened and got too far. Then the worst part was you even might encounter this within your marriage too. So just do the same thing tell them that it would have never worked out. Problem solved.

The real reason you get marred is so the kids will have their father’s last name and for the spouse will have the last name so as the kids get older they will have the last name of their father and mother. This why they have a sense of belonging to a family with the entire family has the same last name.

When two people get married they go someplace and tell each other vows and sign the paper work and now they are married. Now what it means is you signed a contract to stay, be faithful, to help raise your children, and to love your spouse for the rest of your life until death do you part.

Now for many women they do not realize that they are the ones that keep the family together and it is her responsibility to be the glue that holds everything together. The man’s job it to make the money to provide the many things that the family needs. Then he should also help around the home and you both should have date night three nights a week even if it is to go and eat someplace. Have mom baby sit for even for two hours so both of you can get away from the home together and do things like when you were dating. This over time will keep you close and talking to either other about all the things that happen from day to day and then you both will know what is going on within the family and others.

The main one is the woman that makes the home, keeps the home clean, and makes sure the kids get what they need from day to day and for her she is really important to the husband for if she is a good wife to him and makes sure that he gets what he needs he will be a good husband to her. But when you get a woman that will not do what needs to be done she mainly is the one that can destroy the family in a very short time. All of a sudden he has left and she is left to raise the children all on her own.

She is the one that could have been the one to drive him away for if she does not do what has to be done with in the relationship and the family then mainly she is the one that has destroyed the marriage and the relationship between them. Most of the time it was not all her for if the spouse does not help around the home and does things that is not right. They both have a part within the home to do the things that has to be done from day today but if it is not then chaos sets in and soon they leave and seek another place to live without so much chaos.

What are you going to tell your children that what really happened was that all you did was complain all the time your spouse was home and did not feed him or even wash his cloths? And then you wonder why he left and stopped paying all the bills. So why should he pay for something he never got to use in the first place. What we seek out of life most of the time knows what we really wanted was different on what we got. So we tend to run when times get tough and most of them we do not go back to the old ways and even the old places we used to go to.

Our choices within our lives really determine where we live, work, children we have, the spouse we married, the car we drive, the house we live in. Even our parents on how they brought us up and even their faith and all the rest that goes along with our upbringing determines our outlook on life and how we treat others.

When we get to our upbringing we have to talk about our tribal attributes within the culture that we was brought up in. Now that is another sermon. Look for the sermon tribal attributes.

Chapter 9: Married life without children

When you get married and start to settle in with each other and the many things that both of you do that sometimes you do that your spouse does not really like to see you do.

Like whatever goes on in the bathroom for all of us pretty much do the same things in the bathroom. But this really does not mean you have to advertise that perspective of your life with anyone but yourself.

This is the time to enjoy each other’s company and do things together as much as you can. This is the time to setup a routine so when you do have children the routine will still be in place and just stick with it. So if you setup your routine with children in mind later on it will work out just fine.

The main thing is no matter what setup Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday to have date night even if it just to go out someplace and eat and just talk. It has to be away from the home for just about everything that goes on there has to pertain to keeping the house clean and feeding everyone. There are just somethings you cannot talk about within the home when later on you will have children that will listen in.

For now is the time to enjoy each other and spend as much time together for later on once you have children there will be little time to spend with each other out side of date night.

I say this for this is the time that most couples will grow apart and seem like friends but not married. So it is very important to have date night no matter what. Get a baby sitter and just go out only with each other. To spend some time just the both of you. Sit and talk and even get something to eat and just spend time together. Sometimes one of your parents can watch the children on date night and even pay them to do it. It would be good for them to see their grandchildren and then also help you out so you can go out.

Now remember one thing no matter what your spouse is your best friend and you do not lie, cheat, steal, or anything to do against your best friend.

For when you get old your money will be gone, your children will move out, and even your hair will fall out. The only thing you will have left is your best friend that helped and stayed with you no matter what had happened throughout your lives together.

Now if you can look back and say I would have done it all over again then you had a good life. Now if you cannot say that then it is time for a change. So when you do look back you can say that you would have done it all over again. MJR

Our job when we get out on our own. Your boss hires you to do a job and that is what you have to do and do the job the best way you can for that is what they pay you for. For some day your job might be done by a robot and then you will not even have a job.

Making a cake: Our job is to get them saved not to judge them for how they live, even what they do for work, where they live. Our job is not to judge them for what they do with there earthly body. Our job is spiritual and to get them saved and let God do his job to change them from within.

We have to learn: to separate earthly things from spiritual things.

Before the time of Jesus the fragment of God we call the Holy Spirit would talk to us in that still small voice we call our inner voice.

After Jesus we now have what God calls the spirit of truth we still call the Holy Spirit. The difference is now God can live within us once we have asked God to come into our soul and dwell there.

So this means that for God to take care of us we have to live within him this is why we cannot find him for we live within him. And now once saved God will live within us.

Chapter 10: Married life with Children

So it is very important to have date night no matter what. Get a baby sitter and just go out only with each other. To spend some time just the both of you. Sit and talk and even get something to eat and just spend time together. Sometimes one of your parents can watch the children on date night and even pay them to do it. It would be good for them to see their grandchildren and then also help you out so you can go out.

If all else fails sit at that kitchen table, or some place you can both sit and shut the phones off and just sit and talk. You know unless you are a doctor or someone that really needs the phone on. This is time for just you two. Time to sit and talk about all the things that has been going on from day today and talk about the kids and your moms and dads to see how they are doing. The tv, phone, and all the other things that have to be done or want to watch can wait. For your best friend needs this time to just talk and catch up with all the things that is going on with family, friends, and moms and dads. I say this more than once for the more time you spend with each other just talking and doing things together the longer you will stay friends and do things together.

For sometimes when the family had children the parents seem to have so much to do that they forget each other’s needs and wants. So no matter what take care of each other first within the home and then the children for one day the children will move out and your best friend will still be there when you get old. Like I said before you looks will be gone, your money, and children will all be gone but you will still have each other if you took the time to have date night to spend the time with just each other. So many things to talk about and catch up on. Once in a great with just go up and hug each other just to do it and say you are my best friend and I love you. Just for the sake of doing it. MJR

Children need to know

Learning: basics of your religion, mathematics, science, social studies, music, crafts, physical education, and home economics (to learn simple cooking and sewing skills). From your parents before you start school? Even then teach things that they will not learn in school like how to

All morality consists of relationships between persons; that its three concerns are therefore, self, others and the relationship between them; and that the heart of morality is therefore respect for persons. [The child’s concept of a person] does not have to be learnt as such, [but] it does have to be built up by moral education in terms of knowledge, habits and attitudes.

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Because the three core values of sustainability are universal to all people of all cultures, ethnic groups, religions, and racial composition, the synergism of the three core values and the Schematic for Sustainability can empower local teams anywhere in the world to design social institutions according to their particular culture. No central authority or control or overarching organization is needed to begin this process. Co-Creative Design Teams in any community can begin the spontaneous global development of locally designed sustainable social institutions. Sharing results between Teams, globally, will empower constructive change of older systems of social institutions and policies in all cultures and nations.

Developing designs of sustainability forms an ideal that requires progressive stages of designing and planning the programs that lead to sustainability. Once the plans are formed, then another team, the Co-Creative Working Team, must devise developmental steps for implementing those plans in a progression that leads to greater and greater sustainability, and social stability.

Caveat — History demonstrates that it takes many decades, even centuries, to build a civilization, but only years or decades to decline and then collapse. Building a sustainable global civilization will require conscious and deliberate intention and may take decades to begin, and centuries and millennia to complete — that and a precious awareness that social change will be a constant annoyance until then.

http://tmarchives.com/readdoc.php?tid=5818&search=school%20morality

Chapter 11: Basic Information

Things we need to know that our parents did not teach us.

There are many things in life that our parents did not teach them because their parents did not know what to teach their children and so on.

Our parents should have taught us about life outside of our parents’ home really is and how to deal with life on our own.

School will never teach you about what life really like. For what you learn in school is just basic things that you will need to know about history, math, English, and science. That is all school really is just to teach you the basics of education.

What you need in real life and when you get out on your own your parents are the ones that has to teach you about real life outside the home. If they do not do this then as time goes by and even when you get out on your own there is a real shocker. No place to live, no food, and how to do I provided the many things that is needed from day to day. Then you look for a job and as time goes by you cause problems within your job and get fired because you was never taught about how to get a job and even how to keep a job.

Everything within life you have to learn. We are all born with a blank slate and have to learn everything. God did that so no matter where we are born we can adjust to where we live. The way we look all depends on where we are born.

You cannot teach something that you did not learn when you were growing up. I know my mom and dad did not teach us anything we had to learn everything on our own. About life, marriage, friendships, relationships, housekeeping, cooking, money, jobs, religion and all the other things that our parents should have taught us as we was growing up but never did for you have to be taught to what to teach your children. If you were not taught then how would you learn those things?

The most important learning years of all the children are from the age of 3 to 8 years old. They have learned 80% of everything they will learn within those years. So it is the job of all the parents to teach their children about the many things that go on within the school, the home and what stays at home and what can be told outside of the home. Then if you let a baby sitter take care of your children the education of the baby sitter is who the children will learn from. For the children will learn from those that take of them. So think really hard before you hire a baby sitter to take care of your kids for any length of time. For do you want the baby sitter to teach them what the sitter knows about life or you to teach them what is right and what is wrong and all the other things the children need to learn from you for you are the only one that can teach them what they need to know.

Now if you have a school book that you can give the baby sitter to teach the children then that is the way to go if that is the only the way it can be done. Like this book. This would be the one to give the baby sitter to teach from. And even for them to read to learn themselves.

Chapter 12 Age 0-2 What we should teach them at this age.

This is the time of life that once you have your first child you will come to understand what your parents went through with you when you was that young.

You bring home the baby and know nothing on how to take care of your first child unless you learned from your mom on how to do this. If not then you will want to take a class on now to take care of a new born.

If the hospital did not teach you then you will have to call your mom for help that is if you do not already know. For your mom raised you and went through what you are going through now so she is one of the best ones to ask for help even if you think you do not need help you will. What I have learned helps is when the baby sleeps you sleep but never in the same bed. Always put the baby in the crib never in your bed when you sleep. You can roll over and kill the baby. Then you will want to make sure never to over feed the baby. It is better to under feed a little because if you feed them too much they will barf all over you. You will find out if you have feed the baby too much and then you tell how to feed the baby.

Change the baby about every two hours and feed them some. When you have a new born the baby will sleep a lot. So if you can sleep when the baby sleeps unless you have your mom stay with you some so you can get some sleep. Time will go by and before you know the baby is starting to move around and before you know the baby is walking. Time to lock all the cabinets and put all the cleaners up high. What we used to do is where you keep the pots and pans under the counter clean it out and put the toys there. So when they do get into the cabinet they will find toys instead of all your pots and pans and or cleaners.

This is the time you enjoy them when they are young have mom and dad over on both sides and take lots of pictures. The year will go by so fast and before you know it they will be walking. I really like those years for they never talked back and I know where they were all the time. Then they started talking and all over the house. Now if you own your own home you can cut the doors inbetween the rooms and put up a shelf on the bottom part of the door and cut as much of the top of the door as thick as the shelf. Then put the door back on with the lock on the out side of the room the children will be in. you can see in but they cannot get out. We have tried the room dividers but they are low and after a while the kids will just go over them but with the half door you can cut it as high as you want so the kids just not go over it.

That is what one looks like and you can buy them that way too or make your own.

When they get over a year old you can start to show them things like put on their shirt, pants, and if they cannot do it right away just help them like you always do but let them do more of them getting dressed by themselves. Once they start to talk then someone will say words that you do not want them to say so I started telling them that they were a fuzz ball, crackers and I think that was the best of I like to say. For when I said it I would go and get some. and there are other things so they would not say other words that others have said and learned real easy. Like sponge bob says tartar sauce. You can learn to say other words, like hot dog, ice cream, just say OH ice cream want some? All of sudden they started to say that when things went wrong. Do not tell them they did wrong change the way they think. Like when you go to the store and the kids starts to cry I want that and when you walk away they start to scream. I always have a toy or something in my pocket to give them because there memory is not very long and soon they will take the toy or whatever you have and forget about what they were crying about. Do not yell at them for it will do nothing change their mind on what they were doing. Give them something to do differently than what they were doing. You can use this at any time anywhere.

You can even train the kids with candy bars too. If they do good they get a candy bar. If they do badly they do not get one. You can use other things too not only candy bars. Then the worst part is sometimes you can even get the grow ups to do things for candy bars too. LOL

The thing is not to tell them they did wrong or yell at them but to change the way they think so they will start to do the right things because they will want the reward that you will give them for doing the right things.

One you change the mind you change there outlook on life. Our job is to guide them to do the right things and then over time they will want to do the right things.

Then keep in mind the kids will do what you do so watch what you do around them for you can even say do as I say and do not do what I do but what I say. All they see is what you do not what you say.

Then remember that the boys and girls think differently once they get over 12 years old. MJR

Chapter 13: Age 3-5 What we should teach them at this age.

Now is this is the age of potty training

The only way you can train any child is get a small potty and put it in the bathroom so everytime you go you take the child with you and put them on the pot and you sit on the big pot and go. Once you are done say see I go in the big one and you can go in the little one because you are not big enough to use the big pot yet but when you get bigger you can use the big potty. They learn by what you do but most of the time on not what you say but what you do.

Soon they will get the idea that you use the potty and do not wet your pants so they will want to do the same thing. Every time they go in the potty give them a candy bar or something they like. Then do not say anything if they do go in their pants say when you have to go let me know and we can go together ok. No candy bar you this time only when you go in the potty. Yelling gets you no where. Then over time they even go in their own without you. They will I went all by myself and that is a good thing. Then give them a candy bar or?

Then pretty much at the same time get them to dress themselves. If you started when they were about 2 then it will not take them long for they can dress themselves. They might have a hard time to tie their shoes so get Velcro instead.

Now even bath time you can get them to wash themselves and then take them out of the tub and let them towel off dry. Then say once you get a little dryer you can get dressed easier so wrap the towel around them and take them to their bedroom to get dressed. This way if someone else needs the bathroom they will not use the bathroom to get dressed in once they get older! Plus it is easier to get dressed in the bedroom anyway.

About when they get 4 you can start to get them to do things around the house. They can do little things like make sure all the toys are taken care of and the dirty clothes are in the hamper. Work with them once in a while to read, write, and math. This should be done at least three times a week. Spelling, and learning to write, and read is one of the things that the children should already have learned at home for it will get them a head start in school. That I why most schools have Kindergarten for the kids to learn to read and right, spell and learn some math before they start first grade. Things their parents should have taught them before they even started school.

So this is the most important time for the children to learn as much as they can before they even go to school and keep learning from their parents about life in general is all about. So when they do grow up they will know what to do when they get out into the real world and start working to make their own way in life. MJR

Memo:

Now what is important within this age is to find out what age your children can go to school without paying for them to go. Each state has its own rules on when the children have to go to school. Before that age you will have to pay for them to go. Like the state I live in is Indiana. The children do not have to go to school until they are 7 and then it cost nothing for them to go at that age. Now if you want to send them to preschool or anything before the age of 7 you will have to pay for school and even the bus ride back and forth to school.

So you will want to check your start that you live in for what age they can go to school so it will be paid for.

Chapter 14: Age 6-7 What we should teach them at this age.

This is the age to continue their school work, and ad in the many things they will need to learn when they get out on their own. Teach them about house work, yard work, how things work. Then have show and kind of tell. Where you can setup somethings that they can learn from. Like setup a little store and show them how money works and how they can make money. With in the store they can use money to buy things and then have them go to a job to make money at. Setup a table with things for them to put together like a factory would have. And then pay them and let them go to the store and buy things with the money they made. Even setup a place to pay rent, lights, food, gas for the car, car payment, and other things. To pay for with the money they made. Then get them to realize what has to be paid first and then toys after the main bills are paid for.

How to take care of the home, boys and girls. Just have to show them about what life is really like and even take them to work with you one day to see what you do at work. Set it up with your boss so it will be fine to do this one day.

Then even take them shopping to see what things cost to buy food and then come home and take care of everything. Then make dinner and clean up after.

All this training will stick with them even when they get old for a lot of things that you will show them they will never learn in school. So if they learn it now then later on in life they will remember what you taught them and they will know what to do when the time comes. MJR

Memo:

So you will want to check your start that you live in for what age they can go to school so it will be paid for.

Chapter 15: Age 8-10 What we should teach them at this age

Continue with the things they will need to learn once they get out on their own.

Learn more about money, how to dress, wash their cloths, keep their room clean. Even help them with their homework but do not do it for them help them if you can for some point in time things will get way beyond what we learned in school and they will be pretty much on their own unless you learned that in school.

Help with the house work and even have them cook dinner and clean up afterwords. If they ask for help then go and help them for at least they are trying to do what you have asked.

Later on the school will let them have a tablet or a laptop to do their homework on and it might not log on to the home network for it is only for school but some do and they can search the net to find what they need to know.

Once they start using a tablet no matter what age you can show them that not only you can play games but you can learn many things from others on the net. So if ever need to know something you can look it up on the net. Even www.youtube.com now you can learn how to do just about everything with video and sometimes that is so good that once you watch the video you can do the job with ease.

There is just so much information out there to learn. One day school as we know it will be replaced by the internet. I think it is getting very close even now. For they have school now for anyone that wants to sign up and do their school work and even sometime interact with the teacher right over the net.

If you have a garden teach them about how to plant and take care of the garden. For maybe one day they will have to grow their own food and with what you taught them they can keep a garden and so they can eat later on in life or just have their own garden when they get out on their own.

Teach them how to take care of animals even if you do not have any. For maybe one day they will want their own cat or dog and or? So if you show them and teach them how to take care of animals then they will know how to do it. Even take them to a store and show them all the animals they have there and they can learn from what they have seen. They can learn from videos on the net too and even from www.youtube.com too. There is just so much stuff they can learn now wow.

Just think if we need to know anything we had to go to the library and read about it. Now we can just watch it on our phone.

If you have not the children a tablet now is the time to get them one and help then to understand how it works. That is if they need help with. They might have learned somethings about computers and tablets in school now.

Once a year take them to work with you and let them watch you on what you do for work. Over time they will come to learn that where you go every day is to come here and work to make the money to buy the things that they get and everyone gets because you have a job to make money. MJR

Chapter 16 Age 11-13 What we should teach them at this age

This is the stage that the hormones are starting to rage and from then on the body will change from being a child into a teen ager. The teen years are ruff for either the girls or the boys but more for the girls. When she will start to be a woman and her body will start to change and become for the shape of a woman then a boy. She even will start to see things differently they she did before and start to notice the boys more now. Even become interested in them. The boys will start to notice the girls more now and they both will get to the point they might even start to date a little.

Exploring the friendship with each other and other small things that will happen over time once they get to the point where they think they will be together for ever. And they will see it that way for they with be blind with love and will not see many things that goes on until one day they wake up and say who are you and why did you do that. Then things will change between them.

You still have to have them do the chores around the house and even cook once in a while. Do the dishes, wash cloths and pick up the house and even vac the floors once in a while. No matter if it one of the boys or the girls they both should learn to do the many things that needs to be done around the home.

For one day they might be on their own and all that learn now comes in handy so they can take care of themselves.

When we was growing up we did not have much interaction with our parents for they both worked full time and we did not see them much. Even after when they were home a lot they still would not sit and teach us anything. My dad said if you want to learn anything go back to school. But I said the stuff I need to know I cannot learn in school. He still said go back to school. So I learn things else where and did not ask him again.

What makes good educated kids is good parents that have taught them.

So get them to understand that what you are teaching them now they will need when they get out on their own. So this way if they want then can learn from you and if they do then you can teach them what they need to know about everyday life. MJR

Chapter 17: Age 14-16 What we should teach them at this age

Most of the time they will start to date and not much will come of it for they have more things that they are more interested in than dating some times.

Computer games, cell phone, or other things that they are interested in other than seeing someone all the time.

Now this is the time for them to have one day a week that they are in charge of the home and do everything that day. Like Saturday all day. They get up and make breakfast, clean up and clean the house, then make lunch, clean up and then make dinner and clean up. Then they will know what it takes when they get out on their own and have children of their own they will know what life is all about.

This is the time when you have them take care of small children in dippers. Let them baby sit and learn about taking care of babies and other children. This is the time they really need to know if for soon they will want children of their own and really will not know what child care really is until they really have done it. If you can find one of the relatives that have small children have them come over for the day and let the children take care of them and help them out so they will know how to take care of small children. Let them see how much it takes to take care of small children and see if they will want some anytime soon.

It is kind of eye opener once you have taken care of small children at that age. It is the right age for them to do it too. Really a good time just before they get into the real dating now.

See if they would want the kids to take care of theirs once a week for them so they can go out and do things. They might even take you up on it. And then the kids can really learn on what it takes to take care of small children at any age.

Get them interested in a hobby, you will just have to find something they are interested in and get them something that goes along with it and let them learn all about it. It might be music. Play something and learn it will. So good that they could go out and make a living at it. So many things to learn at this age. Just have to find what they are interested in. can do this at a younger age but at any time is a good time to start playing music.

Chapter 18: Age 17-20 What we should teach them at this age

These are the years that dating has been become almost a wedding. But if they have been taking care of small children some they will come to realize that do they really want children right now or wait until later when they at least have a job and their own place.

Once they wait until then things seem to be easier for them because they have their own income and own place to raise the children. This should be there last year of school and soon they will be out of school and then looking for a job. For they will want to get out on their own and provide the many things that they will need if they want to start a family. That is if they turned 18 and got married right away. Just hope they have a job and get their own place. I think once they have taken care of small children they might wait for a while to have their own.

Have them still help around the house and teach them more about keeping everything clean like the beds, cloths, and even the floors clean. If something has a spot show them how to get it out.

Spot removing is one thing all the kids need to know.

How to keep the bottom of the pans clean and to use Aluminum Foil inside of the pans to keep them clean. When you are done cooking you can toss the foil and the pan is clean. You can even wrap things in foil and put it in the oven too. Look it up and there are just so many uses for aluminum foil.

Little things like make somethings ahead of time and just warm them up on the foil. Learning to cook is a really good thing for everyone to learn to do. It is cheaper to eat at home then it is to go out and eat all the time. It might be faster, cleaner and easer but it cost 3 to 4 times more than eating at home.

Home cooking is better for you too.

Remember on thing if you do not remember anything else I have said:

Eat one item foods more than many different ingredients within any food. A baked potato is better for you than a loaded one at a dinner. For the one at the dinner you cannot control what they put on it but at home you can control what goes on it.

One item foods would include: apples, oranges, potatoes, bananas, peaches, carrots, beans, any veggies, fruits. Not in a can. All the canned foods they use salt to preserve the contents and other things they put in to make the food last longer in the can. So buy it fresh and cook it fresh and you will not gain weight, or be sick so much for you are getting real food not chopped, smashed and put into a shape of something. With all kinds of stuff that is not good for you.

For there are things that is in our food that our body cannot use so all it does is store it. So that is why we gain weight. We keep putting things down there that the body cannot use so all it does is store it.

Meat is the big one for chicken pattys, fish sticks, anything with a smashed, crushed and chopped and put into a shape has more stuff in that our bodies just cannot process so our body stores it. Then we wonder why we gained all that weight and look what we at for dinner over and over again.

French fries, chicken patties, fish sticks, anything with breading. And then why all that fried foods, process foods, and soda we ate and drank and then we look in the mirror and wonder how we got this big.

If we had of stayed home and ate we could have had smashed potatoes, gravy, corn, and even backed fish. All cheaper than what you went out and paid big money for all of that and all it did was make you poor.

I am telling you this now for I hope you have read this far and learn the many things you need to know and to teach your children about the money things they need to know when they get out on their own. About food should have been way back when they were young.

This good to learn at any age about food and or even how to prepare it. MJR

Chapter 19: Age 21-22 What we should teach them at this age

They should read this book for the beginning so they can learn about life once they get out on their own. There are just so many things to learn about friendship, relationships, engagement, and then marriage and then children. That this is the time they should learn all about this.

Now if you have taught them about his as they were growing up then at this point in time they have some what of the knowledge on what is going on.

Now the knowledge of how to get a job and keep a job and what to within that job.

It really is very simple to get a job just go and put an application in and OH how do you fill out an application?

There are many websites that can show you how to make a resume and print it out.

But even though you have one does not mean you will not have to fill out there application when you apply for a job. It will be good to have your resume with you so if there is any dates you need you will have them with you. Then you can add the resume right along with the application.

Now within any job they pay you to do a job and do the job like a robot and do not complain, do the job the best you can, show up on time and leave on the time they say you can go home.

They pay you to do a job, not to complain, cause problems with others. Remember one thing they pay you to do a job and they pay you do that job.

Now if you have problems within your job you go to the boss and ask for help so you can do your job better. That is why the boss is there to help the employees to do the job better and to make the products better and faster.

For some day the job you do might be done by a robot?

Now I want you to think about this one thing.

You can work for money or you can have money work for you.

The concept would be you go to work for a company and get a pay check and make money for the company you are working for. For they make money off you because you make or do something that makes them money. So you work for money and have to pay taxes on that money because you make money. Does not make since does it.

Now to make money work for you: you start a business and hire employees and the do a job for you and you make money off them. Now did you work for that money or did you make money work for you.

For if it is your company you did not work for the money you made money work for you. Your employees worked for you money not you.

When you go and pay your taxes the government say we will give you a tax break because you hired more people this year and only pay have the taxes. You can take that money and use it to make more money.

SO start a company buying and sell products, rentals, provide a service. Like cleaning houses and or businesses. Then make money work for you. So never again work for money always make money work for you.

Find the book rich dad poor dad and read it, it is a good book.

You do not need to go to college to be a millionaire all you need is some money to start a business. So work and put your money in the bank and then get enough to start your own business.

Mainly all you have to do is read the book ok. MJR

Chapter 20: Age 23-30 What we should learn within this age

This is the age where most women and men get married and start a family. Within 10 years they are divorced and start over only to do the same things over and over. Within 3 to 7 years they are single again. Who can we blame for what is going on within the marriage?

If you had of read this book then you will know why there marriage did not work for their foundation was not good to start with. That means there friendship was not that good to start with so over time even though they have love for each other there is no friendship between them. You love your children but not always friends with them. For you know some day they will grow up and leave home to see out their own spouse and start their own family.

If they had good parents that taught them well they would have found the right one and settled down and started a family and they would still be together today. What is important is your foundation within your marriage, is your friendship before your marriage.

Going from stage one to stage three within two months and really never talked about anything but the bedroom. For when we get old things start to fade, like our looks, money, and then your kids move out. Then who are you living with? Your best friend or someone that just lives there with you. That is if they are still there at this time.

Everyone seems to skip stage 2 the most important time within any friendship is to stop at this level and learn about each other so when the time does come when there are problems you know what to do about what happened because you have already talked about it. If not sit and talk about and agree on what to do about it.

Learn to do things together and learn about all the things that can happen within your life time.

One last thing: if you can look back and say I would have done it all over again then you have had a good time thought out your life time. If not you say you would have done things differently than it is now the time to make changes. MJR

Chapter 21: Age 31-62 What we should learn about

within this age.

When you reach this age of 31 and are still married and the children are about ten now they are starting to get a hand full but this is the time to do as much with the children as you can and teach them as much as you can. You can look back and see all the stuff that needs to be done at this age.

The main thing is keep date night no matter what. For this is the only time you will really have the time to spend with each other and just sit and enjoy each other’s company and sit and eat and talk. If you both work full time and one of you are home when the kids are home then it works out fine.

It is very hard to find a baby sitter that will teach your children what you want them to know. You know unless you have this book for the baby sitter to read and teach.

When you are about 40 the kids are about 20 now and out of school and then will find a job and then find someone and they will be out on their own. But it also depends on how many children you have. Most of the time before you hit 62 all the kids by then have moved out.

At this age you have lost all your money, your hair, your looks, and the only thing you have left is your best friend if you have not lost that along the way.

You just home soon maybe you will have grand children to do things with for the parents will be so busy making money to provide all the things that is needed that sometimes they will not have time for their children. So if you have the time you can help with the grandchildren and teach them what they need to know like you taught your children for what they needed to know. So they can teach their children.

This is the time that most families have aging parents that need to be taken care of so you sell their home and have them stay with you now that all the children have moved out you have plenty of room. The best part now is when the grand children come over they can see their grandparents and there great grandparents all at the same time.

Now is the time to take care of your parents like they took care of you all those years. When it really gets to the point where you cannot take care of them. Talk to the doctor and have them send a nurse to help out and or housekeeping can show up twice a week to clean house and do things for them. Like help them take a bath or other things you just cannot do any longer.

The doc and get beds, walkers, and other things that you will need. All you have to do is ask.

Even bed sheets, pads, whatever you will need to help take care of your mom and dad. MJR

We have to learn: to separate earthly things from spiritual things.

Before the time of Jesus the fragment of God we call the Holy Spirit would talk to us in that still small voice we call our inner voice.

After Jesus we now have what God calls the spirit of truth we still call the Holy Spirit. The difference is now God can live within us once we have asked God to come into our soul and dwell there.

So this means that for God to take care of us we have to live within him this is why we cannot find him for we live within him. And now once saved God will live within us.

Chapter 22 Age 63- What we should learn about within this age.

This the time within your life that most of the time all the children have moved out and mom and dad have moved in. it would be kind of interesting if both parents moved in. your mom and dad and his mom and dad all at the same time. You will have to charge them rent and make them pay it. If not they would have to be someplace and pay rent anyways.

This way you can afford to provide the many things they will need as time goes by. Like I said before our doc and help you get some of the many things you will need. Like a hospital bed, walker and even an electric wheel chair. Lift chair, and whatever else you might need. Even like bed pads, and other things. Then a lot of things can be sent to your home too.

Now for the fun part is when the grandchildren come over and all you can see them all at once. You could even have a little party when they come over like pizza, ice cream, not to much soda. You can play games with them and it will help get your mom and dad to interact with the grandchildren. Play music and get up and just dance, dance, dance the day away.

You could invite all the kids over on Saturday and have a big cook out once a month. Or more if you want. This way everyone can see everyone all at the same time.

This is the time to start a business. It is really easy now to setup one. Go to letgo and sign up and you can take a pic of anything and put a price on it and sell it. Then you can find more stuff around the house to sell. Even go to yard sales and find stuff and put on and sell it for more than what you paid for it. Make money work for do not work for money at this age.

I do this once in while I put stuff on there to sell and it does not take long sometimes to sell it. Big stuff and small stuff for they will come right to your home and get it. Or you can meet them some place and sell it to them. Little stuff you can do that but the bigger stuff like dressers, beds, and other big things they have to come to your house to pick up.

Find a mall that you can walk around in to keep in shape. Take mom and dad with you can have them walk too, no matter how slow as long as they walk. Even if they have to use there walkers. If they get tired they can sit on the walkers. Get the ones with the seat and wheels. At least three times a week. Even go sightseeing in the stores too. If they do have extra money they can get something. Some malls have a place to eat lunch. You can make afternoon of it and go for lunch and walk around after wards. You can use the mall year round for it cool in the summer and heated in the winter. It is the best place to go and just walk around and sightsee and sit and have dinner.

Have your parents do things around house do not do everything for them. They need to get up and do things for if they do not soon they will not be able too.

So it will really help if you go to the mall three times a week. So they can get out of the house and walk around. It will be good for all of you.

Remember little things matter now. Like a special desert, big cake, pie. Anything that is not normal is good for them now. Even for you surprise is good.

Chapter 23 Information that would not fit anywhere

We have to learn: to separate earthly things from spiritual things.

Before the time of Jesus the fragment of God we call the Holy Spirit would talk to us in that still small voice we call our inner voice.

After Jesus we now have what God calls the spirit of truth we still call the Holy Spirit. The difference is now God can live within us once we have asked God to come into our soul and dwell there.

So this means that for God to take care of us we have to live within him this is why we cannot find him for we live within him. And now once saved God will live within us.

Learning that giving tithes or not giving tithes will not cause you to enter or not enter the Fathers Kingdom.
They know I live in a circus and they do not need to meet the clowns.
Even though that Jesus was human his soul was divine but his body was not holy or divine

4: Salvation that the churches now teach and preach have always has been Jesus just gave the information that was already there to those of earth. All Jesus did was to bring everything that has been known to everyone here on earth. It would be like telling someone about a little dinner down the street and they had good food. But all this time they never went down that street and did not know it was there. All you did was tell them something that has all ways been there but unseen.

So everything that Jesus taught was not told and unseen by everyone here on earth for because of the Lucifer Rebellion it was not revealed to anyone for Lucifer did not want anyone to know that it has always been there but never reveled unto anyone.

God the Father, the children of God, The Holy Spirit
Jesus body was not divine and his body was not Holy.
When Jesus got baptized his Spirit became Divine.

8.1. Self-judgment -- moral choice.

8.2. Social-judgment -- ethical choice.

8.3. God-judgment -- religious choice

We are spiritual beings having an earthly experience.
The possibility of the existence of God within us is so great that once saved it is a life changing event.
For we live within God himself and this way he can provide what we need and then we come to realize that because we live within God himself once we get saved God will live within us.
Sometimes our bodies run our live instead of our mind running our bodies.
We have to learn to separate spiritual things from earthly things.
You might put the body in jail but you can never confine your mind to wonder.
You cannot make a judgment if you only have one side within you. To make a fair judgment you have to know about both sides of the earthly realm and the spiritual realm to make the right judgment within this worldly relationship with the spiritual beings that are having an earthly experience here on earth.
You can be evil and not sin and you can sin and not be evil, then you can be evil and sin and greed is the beginnings of evil and sin the cause of being evil.
132:2.10 The possibility of evil is necessary to moral choosing, but not the actuality thereof. A shadow is only relatively real. Actual evil is not necessary as a personal experience. Potential evil acts equally well as a decision stimulus in the realms of moral progress on the lower levels of spiritual development. Evil becomes a reality of personal experience only when a moral mind makes evil its choice.
133:6.3 Of all the large cities they visited on this tour of the Mediterranean, they here accomplished the least of value to the subsequent work of the Christian missionaries. Christianity secured its start in Ephesus largely through the efforts of Paul, who resided here more than two years, making tents for a living and conducting lectures on religion and philosophy each night in the main audience chamber of the school of Tyrannus.
137:8.17 "John came preaching repentance to prepare you for the kingdom; now have I come proclaiming faith, the gift of God, as the price of entrance into the kingdom of heaven. If you would but believe that my Father loves you with an infinite love, then you are in the kingdom of God."
How can You judge a life you have never lived
Sin the action of our disobedience
Because of time itself there is a beginning and an end
There is difference between having a family or having just breading stock.
Saved by Jesus who we know because of what he taught.
Because of time we have a beginning and an end.
The price we pay to be civilized is the requirement is to have inside running water, hot and cold water, bathroom, bedrooms, and full kitchen. with out this the city can condemn the building and even the property without this minimum requirements to be civilized.
Remember one thing keep earthly things and spiritual things separated for some books tell about both at the same time so you are the only one that will have to keep them separated.
For we live within God himself this is why he can watch over us and once saved God will live within us.
Do not let your body rule your mind.
Reality has killed my dreams
HELL = Never ending burning dump just outside of Jerusalem
What is within comes out of us with our emotions and the choices we make and even how we speak and even what we listen to on the TV radio and music.
Man cannot reveal to man unless revealed to man first by God. From God unto us first then to man.
I think that there should be a new day between Saturday and Sunday.
you can stand in a garage does not make you a car.
You can go to church every Sunday but it does not make you a Christian.
You can even sing a gospel song and still not be forgiven.
Anyone can write a book and call it a bible but if you separate worldly things with spiritual things would you still have a book to teach?
What do you seek within this world or do you seek heavenly things?
Time is only a human concept. Angels and all other spiritual beings are not confined to time as we know it.
that humans are the only ones that have a planet like this and even the humans are not like any other species on any other planet. So if you really see another species of beings from other planets you would not be able to talk to them for even the language is different. Like earth with all the different languages just about all the other planets with life speak a different language.
I did not want to really tell you this but each planet is an experiment to see what beings are the best to put on all the planets over time. This planet we call Urantia seems to be one we could consider to put on the rest of the planets with one exception. That all beings will be taught the ways of God and who he is. Then they will get a book like the Urantia book but with more detail.
when we seek knowledge we can change our future with the things we learn in life.
The worse thing about life is that people die searching for the very God who talks to them and or lives within them
Time is only a human concept for in heaven there is no time as we know it. Now when the angels come to earth they are confined by time and what they can do here because of time.
The only way society will change is through the children if they are taught from the Urantia book when they are small and taught in school with the Urantia book.
When the disciples was arguing about something Jesus would not intervene but the next day he would teach about what they was agreeing about to everyone so they would know what he was trying to get a cross because there was so much concern about the subject.
Our understanding is predicated and based on the information and revelations contained in the Urantia Book, and specifically dedicated towards not only the establishment of the Father's Kingdom on Urantia, but as well, the coming of a Divine Mission of Intervention through Michael,( our Creator Son), Mission, the Second Return of Jesus, perfectly coordinated with a Magisterial Mission headed by Serara and Monjoronson, and the Melchizedeks.
159:3.8 The world is filled with hungry souls who famish in the very presence of the bread of life; men die searching for the very God who lives within them. Men seek for the treasures of the kingdom with yearning hearts and weary feet when they are all within the immediate grasp of living faith. Faith is to religion what sails are to a ship; it is an addition of power, not an added burden of life. There is but one struggle for those who enter the kingdom, and that is to fight the good fight of faith. The believer has only one battle, and that is against doubt—unbelief.
195:10.4 ' "The kingdom of God is within you" was probably the greatest pronouncement Jesus ever made, next to the declaration that his Father is a living and loving spirit.'
Garden covenant; that they had disobeyed the instructions of the Melchizedeks; that they had defaulted in the execution of their oaths of trust to the sovereign of the universe.

“Eve had consented to participate in the practice of good and evil. Good is the carrying out of the divine plans; sin is a deliberate transgression of the divine will; evil is the misadaptation of plans and the maladjustment of techniques resulting in universe disharmony and planetary confusion.” (842.4) 75:4.2

Salvation was always here on earth and reviled by Jesus when he taught.
When one cheats you sin against yourself from your own spiritual enlightenment. for when there is disobedience there is sin from within that comes outward and effects all your loved ones future.
Origin HELL Old English hel, hell, of Germanic origin; related to Dutch hel and German Hölle, from an Indo-European root meaning ‘to cover or hide’.
At this time the minimal socially sustainable definition of a home is one that protects the inhabitants from the weather. It is able to keep them warm in cold weather and moderately cool in hot weather. It has running water and is connected to sewage drain lines, electricity and natural gas (if available). And it provides a reasonable square footage per person with “personal space” for them.

What the house looks like is irrelevant. Those facilities could be available in a yurt, hogan, wikiup or a dugout sod house as was used even during the Great Depression, or a contemporary stick construction home. Additional amenities beyond those minimums do not increase the quality of life of those who live there. What is important is that these minimums be available to each individual.

Basic Concepts of Social Sustainability, #73

WHY are there male and female? If humans were combined male and female soon the human tribes would go extinct for there would be no way to cross over between the tribes for the DNA to intermingle with other tribes. so God created male and female so within the whole world each tribe could intermingle and start family's that will produce children with stronger DNA. So when you ask should we marry within our family then the real answer would be no because of within every family you have to go outside of your family so your children will have stronger DNA then if you had married within your family.
as we have to understand now is that once evil took over the earth everything the way it was back then is totally different from what it is now. when evil took over everything changed and evil wanted to destroy what God has made and everything that is here on earth. It took a long time but evil did start to take over and everything that evil touched it seemed that over time to destroy. then evil started on the family environment and soon there was what we call divorce now but back then there was no such thing.
EVIL = is when you are selfish and have no ethics, you become disobedient to God and the cause of disobedience is SIN and because of sin you become evil and within evil you become selfish.
How is Jesus the son of GOD? Jesus is the son of man and the spiritual son of God. We are the same we are all the sons/daughters of man and the sons/daughters of God once saved.
RELIGION: No matter what religion you are and even what church you go to remember one thing: We need to separate earthly things from spiritual things then we can tell if someone or even a church is teaching about earthly things or spiritual things. Because of this some do not know the difference. Like when they teach about what Jesus did and where he went instead of teaching what he taught. Jesus was the Son of man and spiritual son of God. we are all sons/daughters of man and once saved we are the sons/daughters of GOD. For we live within God himself and once saved God will live within us. Our job is get everyone saved and then let God do his job to change them from within. MJR
What you need to do is spend more time together and start date night at least 3 times a week. Just get out of the house and go out to eat just the two of you and just sit and eat and talk. If you have children get a baby sitter even if it is your mom or even your step mom. This way if you have date night you will get closer and then someday he will share what he has with you for when you got to the point of trusting each other then things will change between you both. Then always remember this that once your spouse is your best friend your marriage will last a life time.
You know you are old is when the candles cost more then the cake.
Three rules to a less complicated life: Trust, Commitment and Love.
I am sorry I did not know that you can put words together to make a sentence.
Once saved everyone spiritual journey is in a different learning stage within everyone’s life.
Is it called your tribe or is it called your church group or church family?
The key with building your tribe or church is: you want to be so clear about your message that when people encounter it they will be a part of it or they don't

Man can change himself : Although being wounded by circumstances of life, man can change bad behavior. This is a combination of the above positions: that through education, logic and reason, man can overcome self.
Lemurs To Humans 1) Urantia Book 61:1.2,4

2) Urantia Book 61:2.10

3) Urantia Book 65:2.13-16

4) Urantia Book 62:0.1 – 62:2.3

5) Urantia Book 62:2.6

6) Urantia Book 62:3.1-3

7) Urantia Book 62:3.8 – 62:4.7

8) Urantia Book 61:6.1,2

9) Urantia Book 62:5.1

There are some things that for some reason we cannot comprehend and one of them is the materialization of matter within heaven and earth. We are spiritual beings in matter form living within an earthly realm.
God talks to us with a small still voice and once saved the spirit of truth will live within us.

When Jesus died and they put him the tomb the angels come and because they are not restrained by time they incinerated him that is why when they found the grave sheet there was his impression within the sheet they call the shroud of Turin.

Then when he appeared before them he was in spirit form with enough matter for them to see him. What is really interesting is that God can make things in heaven and then he can make anything materialize within this earthly realm.
The ascension order of paradise deities

God (grandfather) The Holy Spirit (grandmother)

Michael (father) The Spirit of truth (mom)

Jesus is the bestowed Son of our creator son Michael of our solar system we live in.

Bestowed means (to give) him the power to do what he did here on earth.

For a woman to feel love she needs little things, like flowers, tell her you love her, do this with her not for her. For a man to feel loved a woman has to make love to him and then he will show love back.

it is a difference between doing things with them and doings thing for them. like moved night you made plans to watch a TV show with them but you did not do things with them like going on a pick nick.

When you love someone is like having an old truck when it breaks down you can fix it. When it gets a flat tire you fix the tire you do not replace the truck just because of the flat tire. Within any relationship if you do not agree on something’s just sit down and work it out so both of you are happy with the outcome. Like the old woman said do you always want to be right or be married?
How can one lead slaves to freedom if they don't even know they are slaves?
What or who God is and where he is therefor is relevant for God just is and always has been.
We now have come to know that why God created everything was for us to share life with God.
For God made everything in heaven and then made It appear as matter so it can be touched by humans.
For God will never take away our free will so therefor he will never tell us what to do.
For GOD does not see us a sinners for God sees us as disobedient children and because of our disobedience it is called sin for sin means when God asks you to do something for him and you do not do it. Sin the cause of your disobedience.
If I was standing before Jesus and I would say: For you are no better then me and I am no better then you for we are all the children of God but some are just disobedient.
Throughout our lives we should enjoy each other’s company, the journey of life, our everyday life, for our journey throughout our life and those we help are more important than when the end of our life comes and then can we say that we have enjoyed life with the ones we have come to know and love and to have our journey with the Knowledge that what we have done we have traveled throughout our life with God within us. For if not then our journey throughout our life would have been lonely and empty.
Are you at that point within your life that you know you got saved but it seems like you have become distant from GOD? GOD is always the same but we tend to become distant from GOD. We have to come to understand that we have to give 100% ourselves to GOD so GOD can run our lives instead of us trying to run it ourselves. IT is like trying to run a car with our GAS. Within GOD in our lives we now have guidance, his love for us, then we come to understand that once we have come to that conclusion that when we let GOD run our lives we just do what he asks and at the end of the day we have had a good day and got a lot done. with out his guidance our life becomes chaotic and we tend to get nothing done and really tired at the end of the day and still did not get anything done that had to be done.
Now for the most important thing within anyone's lives within this earthly realm: IS to keep date night at least three times a week and get your mom or mom in-law to watch the kids so you can go out on date night and just and sit and enjoy each other’s company and talk about all the things has been going on with each one of your lives'. Not only do you have date night made sure that it is away from the home and just spend time together. For when you get old your looks with fade and your money will be gone and the only thing you will have left is each other.
So as one journey ends, another begins. And when you find the Urantia Book www.urantiabook.org then your real journey of Discovery begins.
The heaviest thing you can carry is a grudge. You have to forgive yourself for what they have done to you. That all this time you see it coming but did not do anything about it. So when it happened you are mad at yourself for not putting a stop to it before it happened. So you have to forgive yourself first so you can forgive them for being themselves.
A beautiful woman uses her lips for truth, her voice for kindness, her ears for compassion, her hands for charity and her heart for love. For those that don't like her, she seeks Gods wisdom through prayer.
Children: When A woman is with child and she decides she just does not want the child she seeks out a Doc to abort the child. but have you realized that the child she is caring would be the next president, a great musician, or even the one that could stop wars and even rumor of wars. Have you thought of the potential of that child that she is caring? Have the child and let someone else raise the child for someday that child might be great. What the bible says about the beginning of life before the child is born. Genesis 2:7 “And the LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.”
God said: that they get bored with childhood. They rush to grow up and then long to be children again.
That they lose their health to make money and then lose their money to restore their health.
That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present nor the future.
That they live as if they will never die, and die as if they had never lived.
As a parent, what are some of life’s lessons you want your children to learn?

To learn that it is not good to compare themselves too others.

To learn they cannot make anyone love them.

What they can do is let themselves be loved.

To learn that a rich person is not one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
To learn that it only takes a few seconds to open profound wounds in persons we love, and it takes many years to heal them.
To learn to forgive by practicing forgiveness.
To learn that there are persons who love them dearly, but simply do not know how to express or show their feelings.
To learn that two people can look at the same thing and see it differently.
To learn that it is not always enough that they are forgiven by others.
But that they must forgive themselves first and then they can forgive others.
Then as God said to learn that I am here for you always.
For God is our heavenly Father and the one that conceived us is our earthly father and the one that raised us is our dad.
You all have a return ticket to Paradise, yes you all come from the Universe of Father, God, and you are destined to return to your Father God as a perfected human being. This is all that Father demands of you, to return to Father under your own free will as a perfected human being.

105.Yes, you can say that’s quite an old order and how that come about. For those of you who are already familiar with the Urantia Book you will know that from the moment of conception your personality was given to you by the Father of all.

While still in an embryonic form in your mother’s worm that personality began to grow and then later as a child, after making your first moral decision, you received your Beloved Father Fragment who also brought with him your Soul in an embryonic form. Also, you have your thought adjuster/Guardian Angels as they are sometime referred to, to help on your journey, your return journey to Paradise.
Another case of a disguised mental illness undiagnosed.
I must remind you that although silently, the mechanical mind is hard to grasp, the life phenomenon is "invisible" quantum cycles that always improve the efficiency of space and is unrelated to time in almost all things except the duplicates of temporal mirrors. Be sure that science, for example, will never accept the term "god" in its researches, not because there is no a original and infinite consciousness, but because the label brings the finitude of a concept.
When do you become the likeness of the KING? When Saved.
When litigators prepare their witnesses to testify, one of the specific things we instruct them on is techniques for dealing with yes/no questions on cross-examination that can’t be answered with a simple yes or no.

The basic technique is to say something along the lines of, “I could answer your question with a simple yes or no, but it would be misleading, and I wouldn’t want the jury to be misled. May I explain?”

That way, the witness looks like the good guy — he’s on the jury’s side of truth and right — and he puts opposing counsel to a forced choice.

If opposing counsel insists on a yes/no answer, she looks like a ratfink who’s trying to hide something from the jury.

If opposing counsel doesn’t want to alienate the jury, the witness gets to give the explanation.

They said that nudity is not pornography, weed is not a drug, gay is not wrong, borders are not real, and pineapple does go on pizza.

I say that anyone running around nude is streaking, weed is a plant, gay is ok until you want kids, and any pizza with or without pineapple is still good pizza.

Son: MOM, can I sleep with you? I’m Scared. ME: NO, I cannot risk the monster following you into my room and killing me. So you are on your own.
Free will: it stays intact - people have to choose which way they want to go. This means that nothing will ever be done on the celestial side "by miracle". Possibilities are offered and will be known - it is up to men to choose to accept them or not.
It's not so that people became selfish because of Lucifer's rebellion. Humans were selfish, aggressive and still are. Even in what you understand by a religious or spiritual person there is often a lot of egoism, ego, hypocrisy, thirst for power, greed, pride, jealousy and envy.
All of humanity will always have to choose and work on its own soul growth because no one will suddenly become altruistic, loving or divine. Mankind as a whole must still accomplish this. This can only happen when more and more people choose Gods direction and want to make an effort to improve themselves. Only then will the selfish and wicked wolves gradually become an isolated, powerless minority that will disappear over the centuries.
What do we go to school? IT is learn from our history, math, science, a language, to learn from our ancestors so we will not make the same mistakes.

Then we can solve problems that come up from our history that tells us what to do within a lot of things that happen and you can solve them because you learned in school how to solve them.

117. John talks much about the “eternal life.” Jesus often spoke of it as the “kingdom of life.”

He also frequently referred to “the kingdom of God within you.” He once spoke of such an experience as “family fellowship with God the Father.” Jesus sought to substitute many terms for the kingdom but always without success. Among others, he used: the family of God, the Father’s will, the friends of God, the fellowship of believers, the brotherhood of man, the Father’s fold, the children of God, the fellowship of the faithful, the Father’s service, and the liberated sons of God. [Paper 170:2.24, page 1861:6]

The New Urantia book will be called: Nystoria, Book of Revelation.
Earth is what we call the planet we live on. Urantia is what God call our earth. Now because of the change that has come because of the lucifer rebellion our solar system and even the galaxy now our earth is called: Nystoria.
When any company only pays minim wage then tell all their employees to go and get food stamps and medical insurance who is stealing money? The companies are stealing from the government for not paying a livable wage in the first place.
Orbs: “And it is on these occasions when they are interested in a project, or mortal individuals that still dwell on the planetary systems that they are presented with the communication device we earlier discussed. These are the orbs of different sizes and different colors that occasionally appear in your photographs. For those in higher realms, involved in projects that go on at a terrestrial level these devices that are minded, that can be instructed, that can take individual instructions, and yet are not endowed with a personality, are of immense value to those who must have their fingers on the pulse of terrestrial happenings.

“The orbs that you will see more and more often in this, the Correcting Time, are not spies because there are no spymasters. They are not divisive; they are simply living devices that keep their superiors, their owners, those at higher levels, up to date with the goings on that particularly concern them.

“Orbs are not Angels. They are certainly not ‘long lost relatives’ or Spirits. They are simply minded machines that can maneuver themselves into any situation where they can record and transmit information to where it is needed elsewhere in the universe. http://1111angels.net/old_files/E_Archives/list1166.htm

Religion in Human Experience

The Urantia Book Paper 100

Capturing digital pictures of celestial orbs of energy

You stated, Jean, that you were going to take pictures of spiritual energy orbs or beings with your camera. We suggest you not use your flash but use the automatic aperture opening on your camera to capture these orbs of energy. There are several there in your presence at this time and so it is a matter of having their frequency register on your digital camera or upon your film. [This is] just a suggestion. http://www.tmarchive.org/readdoc.php?tid=6144&search=orbs

It is as if there are two wolves inside me. One is good and does no harm. He lives in harmony with all around him, and does not take offense where no offense was intended. He will only fight when it is right to do so, and in the right way.” “But the other wolf? Ah! He is full of anger. The littlest thing can set him off into a fit of temper. He fights everyone, all the time, for no reason. He cannot think because his anger and hate are so great. It is helpless anger, for his anger will change nothing.” “Sometimes it is hard to live with these two wolves inside me, for both of them try to dominate my spirit.” The boy looked into his Grandfather’s eyes and asked, “Which one wins, Grandfather?” The Grandfather smiled and quietly replied, “The one I feed.”
Because of choice/free will/morals after death we are not allowed to come back and tell everyone that what the Urantia book says is true and to follow it and get saved (means to survive death). But to tell them that it would take away free will for everyone to choose how they live out their lives.
Long ago a midwayer said it was extremely hard to answer our questions because we knew so little about what is really out there and what is really going on to give you an answer that you would understand. For sometimes I would have to explain about something things just to get to answer you questions. This is why we give you a short answer and leave it at that.
My wife got drunk and tried to set our marriage certificate of fire, saying GOOD LUCK trying to return me without the receipt.
188:4 Meaning of the Death on the Cross
Positive Rights are things that if you don’t already have, the Government has to provide for you. We don’t have a whole lot of those normally. If, however, you are detained by a police officer you do have a positive right to an attorney. If you can’t afford one, one will be provided for you.

Negative Rights are the way our government prefers to do business. Nearly all the rights in the Constitution are negative. You have the right to keep and bear arms, but you can’t demand one from the government for free. Your only right is that they will not interfere with you exercising your right. On your own.

Negative Rights = Liberty.

Positive Rights = Obligation.

https://www.libertarianism.org/media/around-web/positive-rights-vs-negative-rights

Should Christians work for money?

Answer: Let me give you some insight: when Jesus started his teaching he and all the disciples would work for three weeks and then go out and preach for a week and then come back home and go back to work. This way they could afford to go out and preach and teach. Then you have to also realize that we have to separate earthly things from spiritual things. God can take care of because we live within God himself and once saved God will live within us. So we have to work and go by man’s laws so we can do Gods work.

Your relationship within marriage.

The three stages of being married.

Stage one: when we meet someone and start to see them all the time and then think of getting married and starting a family.

Stage two: Is when we get to know them and ask all kinds of questions like over 100 questions before marriage. SO when things come up you both know how to take care of them.

Stage three: Getting married and starting a family.

Now there are also three stages of family life:

Stage one: You get married and enjoying each other and spending as much time together as possible within working, sleeping, and when there is children taking care of them.

Stage two: Now is the time to keep date night and get a baby sitter so you both can have some what I call us time. Just get a baby sitter and go out and eat and just talk about all the things that has happened. Go for a walk on the beach, GO to a park or some where you can just go for a walk and just talk and enjoy each other’s company.

Stage three: As we get older if we do not keep date night we tend to grow apart and even though we live together we might not be together. At one time if you do not do date night soon you become like roommates and just do things that need to be daily. Remember that your spouse is your best friend of all time. Keep date night.

Now within stage three: there is the mind, heart, body, spirit. Within our relationship with our spouse we might still Love (heart) body (sex) still together (mind) spiritually bonded. (Spiritual)

If we lose one we can still be together but once we lose two and then three. And there is only love left like you love your children but glad when they move out. If we feel that way about our spouse we tend to want them to grow up and move out like the children. Most of time happens we start to look for a new relationship and soon we tell our spouse to go and find someone else. IT is time to move on and move out.

When our spouse becomes like one of our children we tend to treat them that way. Then when they are gone we tend to miss them like we miss our children when they move out.

It is not that we miss them but we miss the idea of them being there to talk to when we need someone to talk too. We just have to find someone else to talk to so we can replace them.

Now if we take care of our marriage friendship and relationship then we can spend the rest of our lives with them.

We have to keep date night at least 3 times a week, enjoy each other company, bed time, hug, kiss, and just be there when things go wrong. Do little things like candy, flowers, going to dinner just the two of you? On the week end have family day with all the relatives, like a cook out or a cook out at the beach for the day. To spend time with either family. Like the old saying Goes those that pray together say together.

A woman needs to be showed love and a man needs to be made love to for them to show love. The woman within any home is the most important for she is the one that will make the home a home or she will be the one to that will destroy the home and there will be a divorce for she has not performed her job as the only one that can make the home and home.

Now for one last thing no matter what I have said here always remember one thing:

We have to learn to keep earthly things and spiritual things separated and as we go throughout our lives we can see and tell the difference between them. This way we can tell if someone is telling us the truth or not.

For sometimes we are told things and we do not or cannot determine if they are true or not but once we come to the understanding of what is earthly and what is spiritual then we can determine what the truth is or what is not the truth.

What goes in your mouth will not defile you but what comes out of your mouth will defile you.

For what you say and do is also within your heart.

Now for the last thing: Always do what you want to do as you got throughout your lives for when you get old you can look back and say I would have done it all over again.

God does not forgive our sins. God forgives us our disobedience. Sin is the cause of our disobedience. So when we repent and confess our disobedience to God he forgives us and he gives us the gift of internal life in heaven with him. For if we do not confess our disobedience when we get to heaven and stand before God and denounce him we will cease to exit. For there is no hell for hell is only an earthly term we use here on earth only.
The reason married couples fight is because they never did stage two within the three stages of marriage. Stage one: Meet someone and get to know them. Stage two: talk about all the things that you both will go through lives problems with the, kids, parents, brothers, sisters, relative’s, and all the other things that will come up in life. Ask the 1,000 questions that need to be talked about. So when you do get married you both will know what to do when the time comes when something happens. You just take care of it for you already have talked about it and know what has to be done when it happens. There will still be times when things come up that you have not talked about and then the best thing would to sit down and talk about it and take care of it. It is better to sit and talk about it and agree on what to do. Then to fight over it so you can get your own way. Sometimes one way is better than others so for the best talk about it and find the best way to take care of what ever happened. So sit and talk about things as they happen so you are both on the same page and can resolve what is going on. Remember one thing you both are best friends and live together so friends work together and solve problems together. For life is short and we need to work together because when we get old all of our money will be gone, our looks will be gone and the only thing we will have left is our lifelong friend we call our spouse.
If I had billions of dollars what would I spend it on? I would hire a construction company to build homeless shelters in every town and city and pay them. so this would help as many as I could and setup training programs to train them to have a trade. Then setup some stores and sell things to keep the shelters open.
102:2.7 Evolutionary man does not naturally relish hard work. To keep pace in his life experience with the impelling demands and the compelling urges of a growing religious experience means incessant activity in spiritual growth, intellectual expansion, factual enlargement, and social service. There is no real religion apart from a highly active personality. Therefore do the more indolent of men often seek to escape the rigors of truly religious activities by a species of ingenious self-deception through resorting to a retreat to the false shelter of stereotyped religious doctrines and dogmas. But true religion is alive. Intellectual crystallization of religious concepts is the equivalent of spiritual death. You cannot conceive of religion without ideas, but when religion once becomes reduced only to an idea, it is no longer religion; it has become merely a species of human philosophy.
I think I unknowingly committed the unpardonable sin, will God forgive me?

The question that you have asked we have to explain some things first to answer your question first:

Sin is the cause of our disobedience to GOD. God sees us as disobedient children. We have to realize that we have to separate our earthly realm with our spiritual realm. What we do here on earth if we do something wrong we will pay for with our money or with our body. Like go to jail or pay a fine for what we have done.

For us within our spiritual realm all we have to do is repent our disobedience and God has for us of our (sin) Disobedience.

Now for another thing that GOD will never do is take away our free will to choose how we live and even who or what we worship. So if you ask for something from GOD and he does not answer you then are you one of his children. If you have not repented he will not do what you as if it within not taking away your free will to choose. If you are not one of this children he will still listen to you but will not answer for you are not one of this children.

Like if you went next door and asked the dad that lived there for something to eat or drink. For you are not one of his children he does not have to give you anything and not even answer your question. For you are not one of his children. Then again he might have compassion and give you some water and even some food.

So what you have asked has nothing to do with life here on earth. It is what you have done wrong to whom? That can be fixed by asking forgiveness.

It is very hard to answer questions for you know so little of what is really out there within the cosmos. But this explains some with what you have for understanding as of right now.

What Jesus taught was not a religion but the self-discovery of God that will live within us just for the asking.

Jesus said that once you have received the fragment of God then the self-journey begins from within us.

For we live within our father’s world and once saved our father will live within us.

How can I find god if I'm an atheist?

For one thing I want you to think about this first before you do anything else within your life: For one thing if there was no GOD then how do you get perfection out of chaos? To have perfection you have to have a creator or a being and or a force to create perfection, like if you build a car you have to create the car with perfection so it will work as intended. Without perfection how can you take a pile of trash and turn it into a car. This does not mean there is a GOD that created us but there has to be an entity/creator to take chaos and turn it in to perfection. No matter what it is everything within this earth had to be created by something for no matter what you cannot take chaos and turn it into perfection without a force to do this.

How can anyone take away jobs that no one wants to work at? There are jobs out there that no one wants and just will not work at. So if someone from a different town comes in and takes that job they do not take away jobs from within that town. For if the job is there and no one wants it then it does not matter where the labor comes from as long as the job is filled.
81:6.24 (909.5) Insects are born fully educated and equipped for life—indeed, a very narrow and purely instinctive existence. The human baby is born without an education; therefore man possesses the power, by controlling the educational training of the younger generation, greatly to modify the evolutionary course of civilization.
When you get married you not only marry one of the family members but you become one of their family members also. So it is very important that you get to know your spouse’s family too. Spend time with them so they can get to know you so all of you will get a long and help each other. If not then there will be things that happen just because you never got to know them.
Do not eat fish farmed fish for the farmed fish is the most toxic food on earth. Second is beef.
132:2.10 The possibility of evil is necessary to moral choosing, but not the actuality thereof. A shadow is only relatively real. Actual evil is not necessary as a personal experience. Potential evil acts equally well as a decision stimulus in the realms of moral progress on the lower levels of spiritual development. Evil becomes a reality of personal experience only when a moral mind makes evil its choice.
IT really makes a difference whom your father is: God or Man
Salvation was always here but what was you saved from? Then why was it not taught?
130:4.4 Aone-eyed person can never hope to visualize depth of perspective. Neither can single-eyed material scientists nor single-eyed spiritual mystics and allegorists correctly visualize and adequately comprehend the true depths of universe reality. All true values of creature experience are concealed in depth of recognition.
117:7.17 (1293.1) The perfected grand universe of those future days will be vastly different from what it is at present. Gone will be the thrilling adventures of the organization of the galaxies of space, the planting of life on the uncertain worlds of time, and the evolving of harmony out of chaos, beauty out of potentials, truth out of meanings, and goodness out of values. The time universes will have achieved the fulfillment of finite destiny! And perhaps for a space there will be rest, relaxation from the age long struggle for evolutionary perfection. But not for long! Certainly, surely, and inexorably the enigma of the emerging Deity of God the Ultimate will challenge these perfected citizens of the settled universes just as their struggling evolutionary forebears were once challenged by the quest for God the Supreme. The curtain of cosmic destiny will draw back to reveal the transcendent grandeur of the alluring absonite quest for the attainment of the Universal Father on those new and higher levels revealed in the ultimate of creature experience.
What is a Kingdom?

Noun: kingdom; plural noun: kingdoms a country, state, or territory ruled by a king or queen.

Synonyms: realm, domain, dominion, country, empire, principality, land, nation, state, sovereign state, province, territory "his kingdom stretched to the sea" a realm associated with or regarded as being under the control of a particular person or thing.

"The kingdom of dreams"

Synonyms: domain, province, realm, sphere, dominion, territory, arena, zone "the third floor was Henderson's little kingdom"

The spiritual reign or authority of God.

The rule of God or Christ in a future age.

Heaven as the abode of God and of the faithful after death.

Each of the three traditional divisions (animal, vegetable, and mineral) in which natural objects have conventionally been classified.

Synonyms: division, category, classification, grouping, group

"The plant kingdom"

BIOLOGY

The highest category in taxonomic classification.

New thoughts

Watch your thoughts; they become words.

Watch your words; they become actions.

Watch your actions; they become habits.

Watch your habits; they become character.

Watch your character; it becomes your personality

Watch your personality; for it becomes your destiny.

Watch your destiny; for it becomes your future

Watch your future; for it becomes your spiritual destiny

Watch your spiritual destiny; for it becomes your life

Watch your life; for it becomes your thoughts

The battle was fight in heaven for eternal life but the Lucifer rebellion lost

You can be evil and not sin

You can sin and not be evil

You can be holy and divine

Jesus was neither holy or divine but when Jesus was baptized Jesus become divine

When Jesus was baptized his soul become divine.

The spirit is generous but not always fair

Our personality is our soul and our soul is our personality

Be happy for this moment in time is the beginning of your future of choice within your free will to choose what you do the rest of your life.

Learning is a long road but at the end of the road you become a teacher.

If you are going through hell just keep going.

Finaliters

Personality

Califax

Uversa

Caligastia

Satania

Salvington

Nebadon

Jerusem

March 16, 1986 of this calendar Lucifer and Caligastia died. Satan lost his mind and now in a hospital forever on one of the prison worlds

Joseph was 21 and Mary was 20 when they were married

One year later Jesus was born on aug 23, BC 07

He died on the cross April 9, 30 A.D

The reason there is male and female is:

That is a really interesting question for this is the way it was

Mary spoke Aramaic, Joseph spoke Aramaic and Greek

Joseph was adopted by Herod and then he became Jewish within the roman empire. So that made the whole family roman Jews. The family was given a bible that was in Hebrew so to read it they had to learn Hebrew. so as Jesus grew up he learned all three. So later on in life it really helped him when he started preaching because he taught in all three.

The 12 disciple spoke different languages so that is why in the bible he taught only two or three at a time for he had to talk to them in their language.

So to answer the question by his father Joseph that was adopted by Herod the whole family was Jewish Romans.

The Jewish church elders all spoke Hebrew so all the church services was in Hebrew.

170:1.13 (1859.6) At different times and in varying circumstances it appears that Jesus may have presented numerous concepts of the “kingdom” in his public teachings, but to his apostles he always taught the kingdom as embracing man’s personal experience in relation to his fellows on earth and to the Father in heaven. Concerning the kingdom, his last word always was, “The kingdom is within you.”

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It is better to light a candle then to sit in the darkness

We are all made in the image of God but we are all baked in different ovens

For wisdom does not touch the weak but the weak can experience wisdom

If change comes within your life also your fortune will change

Wisdom comes to those that seek it

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Before you can win you must play the game first

If you have a large chair, or car, or house, or even a castle does not always make you king/

Beautiful things are never perfect

Do not marry for beauty or money but marry for love for beauty and money will fade away when we get old. So that is all you will have when you get old is each other.

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"I would rather live my life as if there is a God, and die to find out there isn't, Than to live my life as if there isn't, and die to find out there is."

“Practice what you preach so your Pastor doesn’t have to stretch the truth at your funeral!”

If your religion does not change you change your religion.

Once we understand that we live within the confines of God himself we then realize once saved God now lives within us.

Always remember that we have to separate the things of this world with the things that are spiritual.

To become Saved. Read below.

Prayer of Salivation

SAY THIS OUT LOUD.

God, I believe with all my heart and confess with my mouth that God is real, and I make Jesus lord of my life right now, and I repent of all disobedience and turn from it. God I have been disobedient against your teachings that you taught so many years ago. I open the door of my heart and let you in. Jesus you are lord of my life and I will only serve you. I have been disobedient and perverted that which you taught and it profited me not. Lord I give myself completely to you. I need your power to live for you. Fill me with over flowing with your Holy Spirit. I receive your fullness right now. I will be and I will do what you want me to do from here on. My will is now is that your will be done. In the name of the creator father, your son Jesus and the Holy Spirit, Amen.

Minister John Ruland III

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Religion in Law

I had no idea how critical religion is in the functioning of democracy

The reason why democracy works it's not just the government on earth to oversee what everybody does. The reason democracy works is because everyone volunteers to choose to follow the laws.

Our whole society is built on religion because most Americans attended church and learned what was taught by someone they respected.

Everyone starting to follow the laws because they found out that they were not accountable to mankind but to God for their actions

Where are the institutions that are going to teach the next generation where to choose to obey the law is because you take away religion you can't hire enough police? With the next thought is that with no religion who will you hire for within chaos who will want to become a police officer in the first place? Then in reality will there be anyone left to stop the chaos?

Last thought to teach:

It seems as though you have reached your total understand that the bible is the only book that tells the story about the whole time frame of the past and even the future. It also seems like you are limited for your understanding is only of what is in the bible itself. All the known bibles that we use has so much Jewish tradition within it that without all the Jewish traditions in it there would be no book.

Now I am going to cause you great pain when you find out that the story of Virgin Mary had Jesus from a totally virgin birth without any human intervention.

Jewish traditions said that a woman even though she has been married for a year and been sleeping with her husband is still a virgin until she has her first child. This is said because if they get divorced before she has her first child she can remarry.

Joseph was 21 and Mary was 20 and they were married for a whole year before Jesus was born unto her. Jesus was his Hebrew name. His mom was aerobic and joseph was Greek. So Jesus given name was Joshua Ben Joseph and he was born 9/21/07 B.C.

Now with this in mind the next thing is everything here on earth is for us to use and to use as food or to make things with.

No matter what it is if it is of this earth it has nothing to do with God’s kingdom. For God’s kingdom is only spiritual and salvation is a spiritual awaking of the soul.

Our job is to get everyone saved and let GOD change them from within. That is all our job is to get them saved. Not to judge them on how they live or what they even do throughout their lives.

Nothing here on earth means anything to God. So the shedding of blood for our sins means nothing to God for it is of this earth.

God is love and he loves us and no matter what we do here on earth he loves us no matter what.

For us to become one of the families of God we have to get saved and then become one of his spiritual children. Saved means to survive death. For God to take care of us we have to live within the confines of God himself for him to take care of us so this means that we live within God himself and once saved God lives within us.

Main Sermon to tell

https://www.biblicalarchaeology.org/

Jewish traditions

Psalm 14:1 No GOD also 53:1

Genesis 1:26-27 likeness

Matthew 3:13-17 Dove upon Jesus

Isaiah 14:12 Lucifer fallen

Matt 4:10 Satan fell

Matthew 22:30 No marriage in heaven

Acts 2:1 Pentecost means 50th day and that is when the diciples received the spirit of truth.

2 Corinthians 6:14 unequally yoked

Sin: is when you disobey GOD

Difference between man’s laws and GOD’s laws.

Man’s laws says if you do something wrong no matter why you did you shall be punished.

GOD law says: GOD looks in to your heart to find out why you did it.

GOD does not see us a sinners but as disobedient children.

Philippians 2:10 every knee shall bow

Urantia book ten commandments 142:3.10

What does the word Virgin really mean in the bible.

Although Ahaz was an evil king, God would continue to protect Jerusalem in the merit of his righteous predecessors. When Ahaz ignores Isaiah’s warning the prophet tells him to request a sign from God. After Ahaz refuses this offer, Isaiah informs him that God will give him a sign despite his stubbornness. He tells King Ahaz that “The Lord Himself will give you a sign. Behold the Almah (הָעַלְמָה) shall conceive and give birth to a son and she shall call his name Immanuel.” Isaiah 7:14

Mistranslation

The word Almah has been mistranslated by most Christians as “virgin.” In truth, this word means “young woman.” Additionally, the definite article (Ha-ה) means “the” and indicates that the prophet is speaking about a specific woman who he can point to. Interestingly when Matthew quotes this passage he not only mistranslates “young woman” as “virgin” but, to deflect the reference from a specific woman standing before Isaiah, he intentionally mistranslates “the young woman” as “a virgin.” To prove that “Almah” does in fact mean “a virgin” missionaries fallaciously assert that this word is used 7 times in the bible and that it always refers to a woman who is a virgin.

http://jewsforjudaism.org/knowledge/articles/isaiah-714-a-virgin-birth/